If Yarmo was red carded for the hardly touching of the ’head-butt’ movement towards Jacquert, after J. Had pushed and shoved him for a while, then Dowman’s kick was much more forceful, even after a hearty but fair tackle on him
Therefore, there has to be consistency, so no question about the correct red card decision.
Also, a lip reader has clarified what Aunt Teta said to Dowman as he left the pitch -
"Get into the changing room, Max.”
As Paul Merton has pointed out, Aunt Teta would not have said that to a more senior pro.
But also where else was the 16 year old headed, apart from the dressing room!