This is terrible and it happened to a very good friend of mine and what would have been their first born. The event itself is tragic but it is everything to do with preparing for a new born; having a buggy, cot, nursery, baby carrier etc that keeps bringing the memories back for a much longer time. Thankfully there are some fantastic support groups these days and as others have said, thIs puts everything into context. I hope we can show our support in a very positive way when Ryan returns and especially his partner and I offer my deepest condolences.